Regardless of whether a relationship lasts or not, it’s always going to serve a purpose in your life. Sometimes, you end up in doomed relationships just so you get to learn the valuable lessons that you need to pick up before you actually fall in love for real. However, when you do fall in love with the person you’re meant to be with forever, the learning still doesn’t stop.
In fact, it’s in this kind of relationship wherein you get to learn some of the most profound and important truths about love and romance. Here are 12 important lessons that you learn about love when you’re finally in a good relationship:
1. Love alone is never going to be enough to sustain a relationship. Granted, it’s the foundation for a romantic relationship. However, it’s not going to be able to sustain the entire relationship all on its own. You’re going to have to really exert a lot of effort into your relationship as well. You need to have patience, understanding, open-mindedness, intimacy, honesty, and a whole lot of luck. Relationships don’t just last by accident.
2. If a person really wants to be with you, then they would really want to be with you. Of course, that isn’t to say that love is easy. This lesson doesn’t seek to simplify love in any way. However, when you are with someone who genuinely wants to be with you, then they would claw their way towards your heart. They wouldn’t be afraid of overcoming any kind of obstacle that may stand in their way.
3. If someone doesn’t want to be with you, then they’re going to try to push you away ever so subtly. They will try to push you away by putting you to the test. They will try to make it feel like they’re so difficult to be with so that you will no longer pursue them. But if you are still relentless, they will try to find something external to blame like “timing” or something of that nature. However, the truth is just that they don’t really care about you enough to fight for you.
4. The truth is that there’s never really going to be the “right time” to fall in love. You never really fall in love at the wrong time. You just fall in love with the wrong people and that’s why the relationship doesn’t work out. The real truth is that the purest and most real kind of love will be able to overcome the challenges brought about by time and space.
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